You can’t please everyone you just can’t.
In life, in family, in jobs, in friendships, in relationships.
All you can do is come from a state of pure love, a state of trust & a state of surrender.
All you can do is what you feel is right in your heart and in alignment and what is true for you.
Being a strong empath & feeler I’ve always felt the need to solve every problem, to take on everyone’s problems as my own, and to feel everyone’s emotions as if they were my own.
This is not healthy and can be emotionally draining!
This is a recipe for disaster!
Most people’s problems have nothing to do with you and are a source of their own inner conflict and unhealed wounds.
All you can do is share space, be patient, be kind, be loving.
No need to absorb or take it on.
No need to solve or fix anything.
Most people just want someone to vent to & is a projection of their own reality.
If someone is triggered it could stem from their own unhealed wounds coming to the surface.
If you are triggered, look within, as we are all reflections and mirrors.