My strong resistance to dating.
“It should be easy”
I’ve been against any form of dating for the past year and a half since being single. I’ve been asked out on dates and it seems like too much work.
I tell people,
Let’s just be friends first because you don’t really know someone at first at all and it’s just lust.
I can’t be attracted to someone I don’t know.
Dating is weird.
Awkward conversations, wasted energy.
I’m busy, I don’t have time, it’s too much work.
I’ve been working on myself, I don’t want any distractions.
I don’t want to have to explain my whole life story or take any time or energy away from myself.
The truth is, the right relationship won’t.
According to Abraham Hicks, “It should be easy”
In her video Relationship Gridwork:
“The relationship I want is one of ease”
“It’s easy to feel good”
“It’s easy to feel at one”
“It’s easy to like what I see”
“It’s easy to move though my day”
“It’s easy to be who I am”
“It’s easy to do the work that I want to do”
“It’s easy to be two separate people with two separate intentions to many things”
“It’s easy to interact”
“It’s easy to be in a relationship like that”
The easiest way to find love is by continuing to do what you love, be open to receiving, don’t look for it, don’t try, let things organically evolve naturally. Let it feel good.
Owner and founder of Glowing Soul Yoga & Wellness and The Healing House Tempe.